
I am perhaps one of the last generation of girls who kept a "hope chest" -- a trunk filled with things that I would one day use in my own home. I began putting things away for my future at the age of 14, at my mother's urging. She had done it when she was young and probably thought that involving me in the ancient custom would occupy my adolescent mind and keep me out of trouble. Indeed it was a good idea. Fourteen is such an awkward age. Not quite woman, not quite child. What young girl doesn't struggle with rapid physical metamorphosis, mood swings, and the need to feel grown-up? Mom told me about the kinds of things she put in her hope chest...things like linens she'd embroidered, nic nacs, dishes, glassware, afghans, etc. So I started one and it was great fun. I took the hope chest project very seriously. It made me think about owning a home of my own one day and what I would need to be self sufficient. It made me consider what my own style was and encouraged the notion that I didn't have to live my life like my mother. That my life would be, could be, whatever I designed it to be.
In the beginning I taught myself how to embroider and began embroidering some linens for the hope chest. I also wove some silly little hot pads with one of those nylon loop & pot-holder weaving frames. Eventually when I was a little older and started earning money from babysitting and later on from waitressing, I started buying things like dishes, silverware, bedding, mixing bowls and cooking utensils, pictures and vases. Before too long there was no room in the chest to add any more items, so I began collecting boxes to put my things in, and store away in a closet, until the day I would leave home.
One day, while walking down the street I was passing a neighbor's house. Her name was Mrs. Van Tyle. She was an elderly widow and had always been the sweetest soul in the neighborhood. She was out in her yard pulling weeds. At this point I was a junior in high school and beginning to get serious about going to college. I had started looking at everything around me differently, knowing I would soon be saying goodbye to my childhood. That included Mrs. Van Tyle. She had been so good to us kids. In summers when we would play outdoors from sun-up until sundown, we often ran up and down the alley and across the neighbor's yards playing hide and seek, having scavenger hunts or playing cowboys and Indians. Mrs. Van Tyle would sit on her back porch and watch us and often would call us up to the house and present us with glasses of ice cold lemonade and her famous sugar cookies. The cookies were always delicious and she was an angel for refreshing us and asking us about our play. She loved the neighborhood children and it was not until I was an adult that I later realized that she might have been really lonely and we were a source of entertainment for her.
That day when I saw her pulling weeds I got this idea that I should tell her about my hope chest and ask her for her sugar cookie recipe. I told her how much I'd always loved those cookies and the lemonade. Tears came to her eyes and she reached for my hand and said "my dear I'd be delighted to." It occurred to me that after all those years of enjoying her hospitality that we may not have thanked her and had taken her goodness for granted. To this day I still have the little index card with her handwriting on it. I cherish it and would be lost without that recipe and the link to my childhood. Many of the other things that were in my hope chest are now gone -- linens became worn out or just plain out of fashion. Many of the dishes and glasses became chipped or broken over the years and had to be replaced. All those things had short lives really. They helped me get my start as a homemaker. But the recipe... well, now that was something different.
Mrs. Van Tyle has since passed away, but I think if she could know how that recipe has served me she would be so pleased. It is an old standby. I made that sugar cookie recipe countless times throughout my daughter's childhood for school bake sales, brownie treats, parties, and after-school snacks. Every Christmas (30 so far!) that is the recipe I use to make cookies to give to all my friends. And now that I'm running Whisk Away Bakery, it is Mrs. Van Tyle's sugar cookie recipe that I make for all my clients' cookie orders. Each time I make a cookie it is decorated for whatever season, holiday, or event is being celebrated. This little recipe turned out to be my most prized hope chest item, and while sweet to taste, grows much sweeter in my heart with each passing year.

